Hello From The Editor

Hi there!

I rarely write personal posts on this e-zine type blog thing, ~smile~, but tonight I am led to explain what my hopes are for this space.

I started this hoping to provide a space for inspirational articles, profiles and interviews of people who have chased their dreams and found success. I felt this was needed because I was always searching around the internet for uplifting stories while I chased my own dreams.

I would like to introduce myself more formally.

I am Te-Erika Patterson. I am a 29 year old single Mom of two beautiful sons whose names are Sai and Solomon. I have a BS in Journalism from the University of Florida and I am currently working on an MS in Marriage/Family/Couples Therapy. I am currently a freelance journalist.

With this e-zine I seek to provide the very things that I wish would be given to me on a more consistent basis: love, inspiration, support and guidance. That is why I write this. I really want you to learn how to love yourself and trust yourself.

It took me many, MANY years to come to the point where I appreciated who I am. I remember repeating to myself, "I hate myself," over and over again even when I was a pre teen. I think the lack of positivity from my parents attributed to me not knowing my value in life, but it's all good. Because of that upbringing I am more adamant about sharing love and light. It is my life's mission.

I'm kind of an introvert, well, you could probably call me anti social. I feel more comfortable when I'm alone or spending time with my sons than when I am in a social environment. I have finally learned to accept the fact that there is nothing wrong with that.

I've taken all kinds of risks to be able to secure my dreams. Many would call me foolish and unstable, but I believe my path has been blessed with each step. I am not a religious person, but I do believe in God. I also believe that who we are and where we are at this very moment, is exactly where we are supposed to be. Once I found peace with that statement it took away loads of pressure from my mind as I let go of my "goals" and focused on finding happiness where I am right now.

I have been a blogger for almost five years now. I don't blog for money, I blog for self expression and to capture my life journey for inspiration. I believe big things for my life and I am often growing and sharing over on my personal blog which may be a bit TOO personal and REAL for most people.

I'd like to share it with you though, in hopes that you won't judge me or be afraid of the path that I'm taking or the one you're taking. We all want success, happiness and love and we will all find it, if we don't stop walking.

I'd also like to switch up the content on this ezine. Because I was a Magazine Journalism major I tend to produce themed features which are a series of stories related to one topic. It is a little more time consuming since I can't just write a blog post when an idea hits, I have to plan several at a time along with interviews and youtube videos. That's a lot of work for one person but I try not to stay away from it for too long.

Maybe I'll try to start doing independent articles for success. That way, you guys won't be left in the shadows wondering what happened to this site while I continue to focus on my other projects like my upcoming book, my classes and securing emotional and financial stability for my family.

Regardless, I'm just like you. I'm not an expert at life but I am an expert at trying and trying again.

Please bookmark this site and share it with your friends. Let's grow together.

Many Blessings!

Te-Erika

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FROM THE EDITOR- In Transition

Dear Dreamers,

I am currently in transition and will resume exploring fantasies once I am settled. Please excuse my absence.

Add your e-mail address to our listserve to receive updates so you won't miss an encouraging word. Our next fantasy will be Rebuilding Your Life After a Felony.

Remember...never stop dreaming!


In Love,

Te-Erika

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From The Editor- Ending An Unhealthy Relationship

Dear Dreamers,

Of all of the fantasies that you have for your life, learning to end unhealthy relationships is one of the most important.

When you are able to identify how these toxic work, romantic or family relationships block your path to your brightest future, you will begin to recognize how one solid choice on your part to escape will set you in motion towards your desired end.

For the next two weeks we will meet people who have walked away from abusive and unhealthy situations in order to help themselves heal and embrace life. We will share tips on how to recognize the signs of an unhealthy relationship, how to manifest your soulmate and how to break up with class among other life changing life lessons.

You don’t need to do anything but sit back and be fed from those who have been there and lived to tell their success story. This is not the end of the road for you. Others have survived and were made stronger through the process.

Read this story about a woman from the Bible named Tamar. She was forced into a situation that wasn’t her choice and lived through the self inflicted torment of her situation. You can make it through. You will live to see brighter days.

The first step is to see yourself on the other side of the mountain enjoying the carefree days of freedom from bondage, whole and healthy, loving your life.

Take a moment to write out how you imagine your fantasy life will be. Be sure to include descriptions of who you are with, where you are and what your new experiences will be like.

Post this vision on your bathroom mirror and read it everyday. Since your imagination conceived it, it is more than feasible. Stand up and walk into your new life, one step at a time.

Love,

Te-Erika

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From The Editor- Embracing Your Fantasy

Dear Dreamers,

Have you ever taken the time to indulge in a fantasy? Do you think it’s a frivolous act or a waste of time to simply sit back and allow your imagination to roam free?

As a child you may have sat and wondered about all of the freedom and mysteries of adulthood. Did your life turn out how you thought it would? No? Well, you still have time to change your destiny. Every day you wake up is another opportunity to learn and grow. This week’s fantasy is all about Embracing Your Fantasy.

We’ll provide you with real-life stories of people who are actively seeking their fantasy lives and a few who have already accomplished it. We will also walk you step by step toward cultivating a rich imagination which will in turn allow you to tap into the hidden source of power waiting to be released.

There is power in allowing yourself to dream. There is no dream that can not be attained regardless of your circumstances if you are willing to first believe and then take action.

Sometime within the next 24 hours, take a moment to sit still and meditate. Think about the goals you had that have been forgotten. Think about the life you have now and what you’d like to happen to make it even more sweet. Compile a list of your top 3 fantasies and share them with us in the comments section if you are bold enough to dream out loud.

Don’t worry about being ridiculed or being told that you need a reality check. The great thinkers and innovators of the world defied reality by daring to create a new vision. Don’t allow someone else’s definition of reality to rob you of your very best life.

Sit. Think. Dream. Achieve.

If your mind can create the vision, it is yours to make come true.

In Love,

Te-Erika

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From The Editor- July 2007 Celebrating Yourself

Dear Dreamers,

It’s been a long time coming for this website. Everything that I am and ever hoped to be will be put into this vision. Everything that I have experienced and learned throughout my professional journey has all pointed me toward piecing together Share My Dream.

My purpose behind this website is to fulfill my dream of empowering others to achieve their wildest fantasies. I know it sounds all corny and melodramatic, but it’s really the truth from my heart.

I have always wanted to meet someone who would stick by me and guide me into my fantasy life. I never found that person, but I want to give the very gift of guidance that I always hoped to receive.

As I fumbled and fell and tried and tried again, I have learned so many lessons about the importance of righteous living and the divine plan for my life. I hope to encourage you to believe in the fantasies that dance around in your mind. Those thoughts aren't insignificant, unreachable or silly. Those fantasies are mere glimpses into your divine future if you dare to believe and take action.

The only thing holding you back from stepping boldly into your dream world is you.

This month we’re exploring the fantasy of being able to celebrate yourself. We tend to focus so much on the things we need to improve about ourselves that our strengths are often overlooked. In my case, I’m so busy running the race of life that I never take time to celebrate the small victories.

Whatever the reason for your lack of self applause, take a moment to list 10 great things about yourself. Post the list on your mirror and read them everyday. Develop a habit of reminding yourself that you are wonderful and unique.

Be a magnet for appreciation by appreciating yourself first.

In Love,
Te-Erika

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